'Don't ever want to be in the same room': Why groom wants fianc¨¦e to ditch bridesmaid
By Suki Reid|
A groom has found himself in an unfortunate situation, wanting his fianc¨¦e to ditch one of her bridesmaid over a drunken comment she made to him.
Sharing his story on Reddit, the groom detailed the events that had led him to want the woman axed from their wedding party.
"A few nights ago my fianc¨¦e had some of her friends over, all of which are bridesmaids. My friend [who lives with the couple] joined them and all of them ended up getting pretty drunk," he wrote.
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"My fianc¨¦e falls asleep pretty fast when she's drunk so I carried her up to our room and tucked her in so I could take care of everyone else."
He explained his bride-to-be was very sensitive to alcohol and had simply gotten tired and gone to bed.
"My friend at that point had started drinking really heavily and looked kind of sick so I walked her up to her bathroom and held her hair for about 20 minutes while she puked," he continued.
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"When I figured she had enough out of her system I left her to go check on the other girls and get them home."
This was where things started to go wrong.
"I was walking down the steps and heard one of her friends make a comment about me helping my friend up 'because I wanted to get in her pants'," he wrote.
"The other girls around her immediately told her off (they're all aware of my friend's situation btw) and I just stood obstructed on the stairway trembling in anger."
"I managed to calm down temporarily, come down and send them all home in Ubers (I had offered to drive them before but in all honesty, I felt so angry I did not want to be in that position)."
The man was so upset by this incident that he no longer wants the woman who questioned his fidelity to be involved in the ceremony.
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"Three days later and I'm still angry. I genuinely don't ever want to be in the same room as this woman ever again let alone have her 8 feet away as I say my vows," he wrote.
"I haven't told my fianc¨¦e any of this yet, but I was planning to do so tomorrow as well as request [that] her friend at least be removed from having a role if not flat out be uninvited to the wedding."
His post concludes by asking Reddit users, "So would I be the asshole for asking to remove her for something she said when she was drunk?"
